My roommate once told me "If your writing a profile, put in it that you always practice safe sex, and I know because you leave your Magnum condoms littered all over our shared bathroom". My response " My seed is powerful. It raises the vibration of our toilet bowl. Or your toothbrush, when is bad" :) While I usually lean towards the orchestrating / dominant side, I think a much of the fun is willingness to try new things and share ideas, and exploring and making fantasies reality.