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Guess wich one is false... - 7/8/2021

Strange Facts



The word "queue" is the only word in the English language that is still pronounced the same way when the last four letters are removed. Beetles taste like apples, wasps like pine nuts, and worms like fried bacon.

Of all the words in the English language, the word 'set' has the most definitions!

What is called a "French kiss" in the English ...

11 response(s), 24 votes
Marry a Pole-Swinger - 7/8/2021

Guys, would you ever consider marrying a stipper or nude model, knowing one day your might find her picture on the internet or in a magazine. What if you loved her and she really loved you? Girls, would you be one if someone asked you and paid you good money to do it. I'm not talkin or porn movies, but pics and modeling.

10 response(s), 6 votes
rm_ivymike100 52 M
7  questions
What should I do? Please help us - 7/8/2021

I am in a great relationship with my very long term girlfriend. We have had two wonderful together and I love her dearly. However since the last , her sex drive went down the drain. But she does not seem to mind. We therefore have sex once every three months or so... She says "Ok, get on with it". I've spoken to her about this, she just does not feel like it and says she is simply too tired all ...

16 response(s), 21 votes
Garden_0f_Eden 44 F
0  questions
Is this usual? - 7/8/2021

So, I met up with a guy from Lesbian Dating Service tonight. I thought it was pretty clear in my profile that all I was interested in was having some sexual fun, no strings attached, but he seemed not to understand that. I listened to him bitch and moan about stuff going on in his personal life, complain about the porn movie I had brought for us to watch, and then call me a when I asked if he had a different ...

16 response(s), 20 votes
rm_Stickyhot1 35 F
6  questions
Feeling let down! - 7/8/2021

Hey guys you helped before lets see if you can help again! I met a friend a cpl months ago, we got along great and he was even patient when my was real sick in the hospital. then we decided to meet in person and wow let me tell you! he was/is incredible a sweet person all the way around.. well to make him happy and see him pleased i let him talk me into trying some things with him one being ...

17 response(s), 19 votes
Sexless in Seattle - 7/7/2021

Looking for a general consenus answer. I am a 36 year old married man who is married to a wonderful woman. She just doesn't have much desire or imagination for sex. Ever since we had our 2nd .

She's stated that she it doesn't bother her if I have a sex partner, of either sex, as long as I wear a condom. (Hate them)....

Have never cheated on her and really have never felt ...

11 response(s), 9 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
mother/ spat. - 7/7/2021

my best friend and her mother had a falling out (this is going on close to a year now). however, i've remained friends with both. but because the mother keeps in contact with me thru email(s) and NOT with her own , my friend tells me that i am being disloyal to her. my friend told her therapist and her therapist said it's not right of me to keep in contact with the mother - that's what she says. ...

17 response(s), 17 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Caught in the act? - 7/7/2021

Have you ever been caught in the act of having sex by someone be it a man or woman? I'm not talking about from your now. If you did how recent was it?

15 response(s), 31 votes
To feed or not! - 7/7/2021

A woman is sitting in a public place with her infant , it is time for a feeding and the mother breast-feeds, she chooses to feed her baby right then and there. My question is would this offend you and if so why?

28 response(s), 30 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
reduce recycle reuse - 7/7/2021

i was recently reminded of a commercial i saw when i was younger, of the one-tear indian sitting on his crying over the litter being thrown on the highway .. . are people still recycling? you guys have any new ways of helping the enviroment or conserve resources?

14 response(s), 14 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
this ain't europe - 7/7/2021

in europe this is not an issue - there's a nude/clothing optional beach in my county and i've noticed lately that a lot of families bring their there (pre and early teens). it just seems weird having look at 10's of 100's of people NAKED. am i wrong? or is it the 'family that plays together stays together'?

13 response(s), 20 votes
shavedballs0 63 M
7  questions
why does everyone in the previous article about .............. - 7/7/2021

why does every response in the "article about the presume these are ONLY men.

Having said that I think that these people (dare I use the word) should have their eyes blinded and their vocal cords cut and their elbows, knee's, wrists and ankles smashes so they cant do anything and need to sit for the rest of their lives and wallow in the thoughts of what fowl deeds they committed - oops ...

8 response(s), 16 votes
Avice from parents of teens - 7/7/2021

This is one I have been struggling with and any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I have a 16 year old who will be 17 in a couple of months. He has been seeing a very sweet little girl who is also 16. Neither of these drive so the only "dates" they have had so far have been either spending time together at my house or going out with us as a family. A couple of weeks ago ...

25 response(s), 24 votes
formermarine1112 47 M
0  questions
Is it too soon? - 7/7/2021

Back in november i lost my wife in an automobile accident. The thing is that while she was pregnant with our last , she had an 80% chance of not surviving the pregnancy so we had had the conversation about what she wanted me to if she wasnt around. well she made it through the pregnancy ok, only to be killed 5 weeks later by some asshole who wasnt paying attention to the road and plowed into us ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
bamaguy37 57 M
16  questions
My stepdaughters sex tape - 7/7/2021

A while back I lent my video camera to my stepdaughter. When she returned it she told me it wasn't working. It sat around for a long time till I got around to looking at it. I noticed there was a tape but didn't think anything of it. (thought I knew what it was) Well I played it today and its of her and her ex boyfriend and its not bad. Just cant decide what to do with it. Me and her mom have ...

37 response(s), 38 votes
quik97gsx 35 M
4  questions
Well, it happened - 7/7/2021

I hate to have to ask advice on here about something quite serious in my life, but its tuff to talk about with other people. About a month and a half ago my girlfriend of about a year told me that she had slept with another man, 4 times. I didn't know what to do. I ended up giving her another chance and things have been ok since then... well as ok as they can be i guess they are no where near ...

21 response(s), 29 votes
chgreen0 45 M
8  questions
Does it justify cheating? - 7/7/2021

Many people have asked when enough is enough in a relationship. I have even responded and told people to leave a dead relationship. But what if there are certain complications that make leaving difficult, does that justify cheating on your mate?

For instance, what if someone verbally abused you and had you feeling really down about yourself. When you could take it no more you left. But ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Black Men Only.... - 7/7/2021

First off, let me state for the record i am not racist. As the joke goes, i hate everyone, regardless of color.

If my wants to marry a black man, an arab, a mexican, or some other race, the only real questions i will have are "does he treat you well, and does he make you happy ?" I may also want his police record and a copy of his tax return, but his race isn't an issue.

But ...

13 response(s), 13 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
First teenage date? - 7/7/2021

Do you remember you first date as a in your or your parents car?

Did you have fun?

11 response(s), 33 votes
chgreen0 45 M
8  questions
A person's first time. - 7/7/2021

No, I'm not asking about the hot steamy details about your first time. (Although you could still email that to me. lol )

But seriously. What is a good age to talk to about sex and what is a good age for a person to have their first sexual experience?

9 response(s), 8 votes
Advice: Men -- STOP DEMANDING WOMEN MEET YOU WITHOUT PRECAUTION. (the Megan Williams case) - 7/7/2021

From the ABC News site (and yes -- women don't know if these freaks could be you, no matter what your race is):

Details Emerge in W. Va. Torture Case Woman's Ordeal in W. Va. Shed, Described As Week of Torture, Leads to Hate Crime Investigation

(picture not included, but the mobile home and the shed in which Megan was held are in secluded mountain country)

Pict...

16 response(s), 19 votes
In regards to Eventyr36's 'What's Up With Some of the Profiles' thread - 7/7/2021

[group_post 1699551] (What's up with some of the profiles? - group_post 1699551)

Eventyr36 writes a lot, here are some highlights: "But we see to many fake profiles here to.... Not to many words and the pictures on the profile is often like it’s from a magazine or something. The worst we have seen is a profile with picture where it’s easy to see it’s not the same ...

19 response(s), 28 votes
TasteSweetness69 36 F
1  question
Curiosity Of Course - 7/7/2021

Many people do things to fulfill themselves sexually that other's would never dream of. That doesn't make it wrong by any means just because it may be something I wouldn't do or haven't done. We are all human and everyone is different so it's quite understandable to agree or disagree on any topic at hand. I am curious about what others think, feel, do and fantasize of to appease their sexual ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
Why do women themselves about age? - 7/7/2021

Why do women all profess to go for the young fucks who are only interested in their own gratification , and do not look , or know how to take of their ladies. Is it an ego thing that they can pull a young guy, or arnt they on the site for teir own pleasure?

34 response(s), 54 votes
rm_Angel4U1962 62 F
2  questions
Not a question but a Thank You - 7/7/2021

Thank you for all the great guys and gals that viewed my profile last night and helped me get the magic number to be able to contact my network friends again.

I had turned it off the day m y had surgery on her mouth and when I came back yesterday had lost all my proviledges to read profiles and email as a standard memeber.

Several of you clicked it more than once and I was VERY ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
wedge38 62 M
5  questions
Noise during sex? - 7/7/2021

Sorry if this has been asked too many times, but I would like to know about peoples habits of making noise during sex. A little, pretty loud or window breaking moaning and screaming? Also for the men and woman who have , is there a big difference between your level of noise before and after the were born, and if they have flown the nest did you return to your old habits?

sorry: three ...

10 response(s), 18 votes
matureman6977 64 M
44  questions
What traits have you developed based on your education and training that irritate others? - 7/7/2021

Having worked in the engineering profession for almost 40 years, In my personal life I find myself asking questions like "What is the worst that can happen", "What is the contingency plan if this does not work", "Have you gathered all of the pertinent information and assessed the data prior to making that decision", etc. I know that my logical approach and my questioning attitude have irritated ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
SparklesFantastk 38 F
9  questions
How did you quit smoking? - 7/7/2021

I have tried the patch (it itches gives me too vivid of dreams and makes me feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack even on lower doses), pills (doc suggested but says don't take 'em at nite as they keep you up , so after not smoking all day I go home and smoke half a pack), gum ( I just don't like gum and it dosn't work for me personally), cold turkey (yeah right), avoiding places that made me ...

33 response(s), 20 votes
twistedmind76 48 M
1  question
can anyone try to eplain how to tell what its true love? - 7/7/2021

I used to date someone who became a friend when we broke up because she didn't want to tie me down with her . I was 21 she was 31. I just recently found this out. We have been hanging out more often and even after 9 years we have both mentioned we missed each other. She says I have a certain charisma. We both need a highly sexual partner and we have great sexual chemistry together. I want ...

20 response(s), 10 votes
angeleyes4683 53 F
9  questions
Confused - 7/7/2021

I had been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks when he tells me he has an appointment to get a tattoo and asks if I want to go along. He has been separated from his ex for a few years, who is the mother of the two he has full custody of. When they were together it was an on and off relationship that was very dysfunctional. She is a stripper and drug dependent. The tattoo is a beautiful genie, ...

12 response(s), 20 votes